"Love is not a feeling, but an Action", I learned this from my professor in Anatomy. He said "It is natural for Lovers to be passionate in the early stage of the Relationship, if that is not True Love eventually heat will pass, Spark will no longer sting.". Every relationship is not measured by 2 years or higher, if you have withstood the test of time, that is when you have proven to the world that your Love to each other is Real.
"Love at its earliest stage comes into Passionate love; intense longing, and is often accompanied by physiological arousal (shortness of breath, rapid heart rate); Companionate love is affection and a feeling of intimacy not accompanied by physiological arousal." Companionate Love is something rare and true, when every passion to both people has gone, but still has Love and Friendship.
My Professor was teaching us about how the Nervous System works, he bumped in to the part about Human Mental Activity. According to books "People that falls In Love releases pheromones like Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Serotonin, which similarly acts like Amphetamines, stimulating our Brain's Pleasure Center leading to increased Heart Rate, Loss of Appetite, and Sleep, and intensifies excitement.". Which means that Emotions are primarily controlled by our Brains. Likewise, in pain caused by Love. All of these are from our minds which we could overcome if we really want to.
Most of Humans are not rational when mixed with deep emotions. We couldn't think properly because we are messed up by our own body, and Memories plays a great part among Heartbreaks. Unfortunately, a person whom has been in love and had a heartbroken couldn't just say that everything's gonna be alright, No, It is hard for a person to properly reason out things; and also be understood to those whom haven't experienced it. A person whom hasn't felt pain from a broken heart could easily rationalize every situation; and what is to be done that is why sometimes it is a lot easier to advise others to move on, not to think too much and to not pick up the phone. Even, The psychologist and writer Dorothy Rowe recounted that she thought of heartbreak as an empty cliché until she experienced it herself as an adult.
The Brain is above the Heart. God had a purpose why he put it there, Meaning, we have to use Rationalization with Emotions. Never make decisions if you are in extreme emotion, When you think that you're extremely Happy just pause for 1 minute and think before making choices. Noggin's should always be put to use as well as feelings in balance. We always look for Happiness; some found it, and some are still looking. The potential to find that true happiness is in us all the time, we just have to look for it even in the little things in Life.
This is what i wore on the day of that memorable Lecture. I wasn't close to that Professor but he made a scientific impact to me. Love is not just a cliche', It is an experience that moves us to many major Life-changing decisions.
Tops: Polka Dotted Top; Divisoria
Bottoms: D.I.Y. Acid Washed Denim
Bag: Stud embellished Bag; Divisoria
Shoes: Red Flats; Divisoria
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this made me think... and hope, that mine is not the kind that wears off.. great read!
ReplyDeletethank you thank you for reading...i'm just a mere human with a lot of crazy opinions. don't mind me just enjoy what you already have.
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